A Love Adviser, Media Influencer, Vlogger, Toke Makinwa, has disclosed how men of our time have ghosted the ladies, noted that they disconnect communication suddenly.
Speaking on the topic ‘Boy meets girl, vice versa’, Toke Makinwa made known that men do everything to get ladies’ attention and suddenly the communication got cut off.
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“Let’s talk about the evil spirit that comes to disrupt the smooth flow of things. Example of boy meets girl and starts chatting a girl up, calls morning, afternoon and night is constantly messaging, a girl can’t breathe, boy provides air supply and when just the girl is thinking hummmmm, this might be interesting, let me open up and let him in and the boy disappears”, Toke Makinwa stated.
Following Toke Makinwa’s moments, she said it called ghosting as a lot of such incidents has happened in this Covid-19 lockdown period.
“Have I ever been ghosted before? However, men can talk to a bunch of girls at the same time with the game mindset of who to communicate with and I must tell ladies, we need to learn the inner voice, although, everyone has it and for me, if the friendship or relationship works out, then fine. I don’t have the time to wait for a long time”, Toke Makinwa said.
Stressed further, Toke Makinwa clarified to ladies that they should allow men to know their feelings and not conclude all of a sudden, to avoid disappointment and being ghosted.
Regard to comments, many commended Toke’s talk as many said it is happening and it’s embarrassing, while some shared experience that many men do it for ladies to fall into their trap, noted that no lady deserves it.