By Deborah Mustapha
A Love Doctor, Pastor, Motivational Speaker, Pastor Tope-Babalola, has advised relationship and marriage couples to rectify any hidden fantasy between themselves in this lockdown era.
He said this recently in a love path summit that comes up on the second Sunday of every month.
In his preaching, Papa as popularly called added that many things can be achieved in different homes with the privilege one has during this pandemic troubling the country and globally.
“Its high time you sorted your sentiment, if as a spouse or spouse to be, you easily let go of subjects matter in relationship or marriage, in this era, sit your partner to discuss, trash it out, it’s beyond fight”, he explained.
Speaking through one of the social media platforms, Facebook, Pastor Tosin said that there is extensive time to express your hidden fantasy.
“What are those things you kept in mind or diary for so long. For instance, a sexual fantasy that you couldn’t discuss with your partner because of work and all or because you feel you are Christian, it will sound ungodly to discuss it, this is the moments to express and explode it out as there is no crime adding flavour to your marriage”,
“Its very important to have a future plan because you are getting older and not younger, draft a plan for five months and more than to have a structured and meaningful living. Don’t just be lord of the ring if you have been proposed to, have ultimate plans together, don’t sit back to enjoy this season only”, he expressed.
Leveraging on memories, he said memories create special bonds, exchange roles, taste different experiences, go through old memory lanes, check out your infant and growing pictures.
Lastly while speaking on the topic ‘Lockdown, launch deep’, he further said that healthier resolution is encouraged, having a consistent conversation, have in control new responsibilities as it will be a plus to the relationship or marriage.