By Deborah Mustapha
A love doctor, Inspirational speaker, Pastor Tosin Tope-Babalola, the lead pastor of Grace Christian Centre, Ibadan, has said that one has to be smart with one life as genotype is very important in a relationship, most importantly in marriage.
“Genotype SS can only marry genotype AA, no more, no less. If you have a partner that’s challenged with genotype and you are hoping in faith that the genotype will change, let the faith work things out before you marry. It is too dangerous to marry against the genotype principle”, he added.
Speaking with Duchess Media House, on Moments with Celebrity show, he said as per finances, one doesn’t necessarily need to settle down with a rich person, but the attempts to be rich and the potentials must be strong.
“Attempt in the sense that he must have something he is doing. God gave Adam work before he gave him a wife. Get yourself on that track first. If his potentials will not amount to much, be reluctant to say YES! Because two sure is better than one. One will chase 1000 and two will chase 10,000. That’s like times ten of the potentials of a single person”, he stressed.
In his view on a marriage proposal, he advised men to not work themselves up. Proposal (No matter how glamorous) becomes waste if the relationship or marriage eventually fails. “So do it the way you can. All you need is consent from your intending to be your life partner and that settles it.
My proposal was simple. I just knelt down in front of her apartment and then asked her to marry me. She said YES! And got a ring inserted. Lobatan”, he submitted.